Wednesday, March 12, 2014

Marriage/Divorce

http://www.apa.org/topics/divorce/index.aspx

My Masterpiece Field: Helping Others

-Healthy Marriages are not only beneficial to the adult but also any children growing up in the home 
-Positive vibes in the household will be transferred onto the family because of all the love
-However, if a child is living in a home in which violence and constant arguments are common, they will tend to develop these horrible habits and could possibly suffer from the exact same thing in his or her marriage which would end up being a never-ending repeating cycle if help does not take place
-Divorce rate in the United States is up to 50% which is literally HALF of our marriages and that is extremely sad because this number should be significantly lower, meaning people are not using their heads 
-I am strongly for marriages but if a couple is unhappy and only causing misery upon themselves and others then they definitely should consider it and take action because all that is completely unnecessary 
-The worst thing you can do if you are unhappy is remain with that person so do not do that!
-The two main leading causes would probably be infidelity and lost of interest
-Cheating is one of the worst ways to disrespect a human being in life and I do not know or understand why int he hell so many people think it is okay because it is not and this should never be an answer or even an option, it should never cross your mind; if you are unhappy, leave do not cheat and hurt them even more
-Lost of interest or no longer feeling like you are "in love" with your partner is one of the saddest things because it can happen at any time is the relationship does not continue to be nurtured by both and is failing to grow together with both of them and their new interests and changes in life 
-You should not marry unless you are more than positive that you are so in love with that person that you can bet on your life for it and take a bullet for that person hands down
-Love is a beautiful thing and should never be confused with lust 
-Marriage can be beautiful if it is done correctly and cautiously 

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